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Who pays for what in weddings?

Below are some of the more traditional guidelines that you can adopt or modify to suit your particular needs. The itemization also provides a check list of matters that may require attention in your wedding preparations. Historically, the bride and/or her family have assumed the majority of the wedding related expense. The more modern approach allows for division of costs between the couple and/or both sets of parents. Note: Usually, the attendants will pay for their attire. If not, the bride will assume the expense of her attendants and the groom for his. BRIDE/BRIDE’S FAMILY

  • Engagement Party: Bride OR groom's family plans and hosts.

  • Wedding dress, headpiece and accessories.

  • Lingerie.

  • Invitations, personal notes and mailing expense.

  • Wedding programs.

  • Napkins/Matches/Printed items.

  • Guest book.

  • Groom’s wedding ring.

  • Groom’s gift.

  • Father of bride formal wear.

  • Bridesmaid gifts.

  • Bridesmaids' bouquets.

  • Bridal brunch.

  • Grandmother corsages.

  • Church fee.

  • Ceremony/Reception flowers.

  • Ceremony rentals. (arches, candelabras, chairs, etc.)

  • Wedding breakfast.

  • Reception hall & rentals.

  • Reception favors, cameras.

  • Catering.

  • Music - Ceremony & Reception.

  • Photographic and videographic expense.

  • Transportation for the wedding party.

  • Wedding consultant’s fee.

  • Accommodations for out-of-town bride’s attendants and guests


  • Engagement Party: Bride OR groom's family plans and hosts.

  • Bride’s rings.

  • Groom’s wedding attire.

  • Flowers for the bride’s bouquet, corsages for the mothers and grandmothers.

  • Groom's boutonniere.

  • Groomsmen & Usher's boutonnieres.

  • Father of groom formal wear.

  • Gloves/Ties/Ascots for attendants.

  • Gifts for the bride, best man, groomsmen and ushers.

  • Rehearsal dinner.

  • Marriage license.

  • Clergyman/Officiant Fee

  • Limousine for bride & groom.

  • Groom's cake.

  • Alcohol at reception.

  • Honeymoon.

  • Accommodations for out-of-town groomsmen, ushers and guests


  • Wedding gift for the couple.

  • Maid of Honor Gown. (Maid of Honor)

  • Bridesmaid's Gowns. (Bridesmaid's)

  • Bachelor-(ette) party. (Maid Honor & Bridesmaid's)

  • Bachelor party. (Best Man & Groomsmen)

  • Best Man Formal Wear. (Best Man)

  • Car decorations. (Best Man)

  • Groomsmen's Formal Wear. (Groomsmen)

  • Usher's Formal Wear. (Ushers)

  • Children's Formal Wear (Children's Parents)

  • Travel costs.

Now of course this is the traditional pricing structure. Today, pretty much anything goes. However, some couples still like to be traditional.

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